2 thoughts on “Email List Size Really Does Matter”

  1. Thank you for including the grieving reader.

    My wife and partner of 28 years passed away only a couple of weeks ago. I’m still a mass of churning emotions and wounds reminiscent of the victim of a high speed collision with a huge plate glass window. I haven’t wanted to read my email, much less a book. My brain simply wouldn’t process it. Even audiobooks tended to turn into incomprehensible droning much of the time.

    I’m also not yet in a position where my previous pattern of simply buying things when they looked good, not just when I had reached that book in the series, has gone on a long pause. I don’t yet know what I’m going to have to live on, and for how long before I have to do drastic things, like sell the house. I do have my Social Security disability, but that’s not enough to do more than barely survive, if enough for that without augmentation. So I’ve gone from feeding the digital Tsundoku to once again being a digital miser. I don’t want to be there again, but, there it is.

    Another category to consider is sort of a parasocial group — those who are grieving your series.

    We become extremely attached to characters. Especially if a series is a long one, a powerful one, one we’ve invested a lot of time, energy, and resources into following. Have we been to conventions? Do we know the authors? Some of us get so wound up in a series, when it comes to an end, WE GRIEVE. It’s not exactly the same as grieving a real person, but it is very similar. I see it in myself. When the end to a particularly good series hoves into view in the distance, I find myself getting avoidant of the last book or two. I don’t want to know. I don’t want it to end. To my hindbrain, those characters, those people, the vivid beings your words have painted in my mind…are dying. Even if they live “happily ever after”, I won’t know about it. My time with them is at an end. That’s how it can feel, so that’s yet another powerful, if perhaps small in number, group to consider.

    I’ve known people who, when a series comes to an end, feel so BETRAYED, they simply stop reading that author. At least for a while. They can’t bring themselves to do so. Thankfully, I’m not THAT bad.

    We get to love particular stories. We begin to love the characters. So we want to stick around, and when we can’t anymore, it’s a wrench that’s practically visceral. And sorry, but it can affect your bottom line. Keep an eye out for it starting, and toss those people a bone if you can.

    1. I’m so sorry for your loss, Gwen.

      And yes, there are a great many reasons why readers drift away from reading in their lifetime. I certainly do know the wrench of finishing a series (both reading and writing one). It’s nowhere even close to the same as losing a spouse, but it does leave a small hole in your life.

      Thank you for your thoughts.

      Tracy

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